Lie, seems to become a fundamental element in nowadays relationship hence difficult to avoid. Each of us trying so hard to hide under a mask in order to "secure" our relationship. Is it an excuse to "protect" our ownselves? Perhaps, not a suprise.
Do "perfect" lie ever exist? I doubt.
I met a couple lately. Married for several years. From others point of view, well can consider a lovely couple. Is it the truth behind? No in fact, as they are "professional" liar indeed. I was shocked to understand that the hubby, keeping another woman just to "supersede" the wife. Wow, "supersede" ! I heard the man justified himself as a loyal and non-playboy type infront of us. Huh... What a good liar !
With this incident, my curiosity drived me to asked the wife."Do you believe your hubby's loyalty?" Instantly she replied:"Sure! I trust him. With his features, none of the girl would have interest in him. Moreover, he love me so much.". I went wordless the moment i heard.
I started to ask myself, now who is the liar? The husband? Expert in hiding all those "criminal" evidences so the wife never suspect? Or, the wife bluffing herself that the man still in sincere and loyal. By this path, lying each other or worst; their ownselves, living in the relationship of no heart present, they hold their marriage for 7 years! Will it be a nightmare whereby a true liar sleeping next to you every night, telling flowery words every minutes? Is it too shame to admit that a "lovely" couple actually diverted? Only both of them know the answer.
"Professional" liar do exist, i realised. But not a "perfect" lie!
Sooner or later, truth will reveal. Is kind of pain to get hurt by your love one. The feeling merely kills you. As people willing to end their life after knowing the truth behind. Conceivably, no one can actually 'cover" a lie with their whole lifetime.
Is the matter of how you address the issue, not to evate. Solve it before is too late. Forgivess is always the reward for being sincere and honest. The payoff for lying is gigantic. You might lie to the whole world, concealing the dark side of the truth. But never to your heart as it will tells you, YOU ARE A LIAR !
Do "perfect" lie ever exist? I doubt.
I met a couple lately. Married for several years. From others point of view, well can consider a lovely couple. Is it the truth behind? No in fact, as they are "professional" liar indeed. I was shocked to understand that the hubby, keeping another woman just to "supersede" the wife. Wow, "supersede" ! I heard the man justified himself as a loyal and non-playboy type infront of us. Huh... What a good liar !
With this incident, my curiosity drived me to asked the wife."Do you believe your hubby's loyalty?" Instantly she replied:"Sure! I trust him. With his features, none of the girl would have interest in him. Moreover, he love me so much.". I went wordless the moment i heard.
I started to ask myself, now who is the liar? The husband? Expert in hiding all those "criminal" evidences so the wife never suspect? Or, the wife bluffing herself that the man still in sincere and loyal. By this path, lying each other or worst; their ownselves, living in the relationship of no heart present, they hold their marriage for 7 years! Will it be a nightmare whereby a true liar sleeping next to you every night, telling flowery words every minutes? Is it too shame to admit that a "lovely" couple actually diverted? Only both of them know the answer.
"Professional" liar do exist, i realised. But not a "perfect" lie!
Sooner or later, truth will reveal. Is kind of pain to get hurt by your love one. The feeling merely kills you. As people willing to end their life after knowing the truth behind. Conceivably, no one can actually 'cover" a lie with their whole lifetime.
Is the matter of how you address the issue, not to evate. Solve it before is too late. Forgivess is always the reward for being sincere and honest. The payoff for lying is gigantic. You might lie to the whole world, concealing the dark side of the truth. But never to your heart as it will tells you, YOU ARE A LIAR !
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